Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Inspiring Story: The Wall Of Resentment..

A story tells of a merchant in a small town who had
identical twin sons. The boys worked for their father
in the department store he owned and, 
when he Died, they took over the store.


Everything went well until the day a twenty-dollar bill 
disappeared. One of the brothers had left the bill
on the cash register and walked outside with
A customer. When he returned, the money was gone.

He asked his brother, "Did you see that twenty-dollar bill
on the cash register?" His brother replied that he had not.
But the young man kept probing and Questioning.
He would not let it alone. "Twenty-dollar bills
just don't get up and walk away! Surely you must
have seen it!" There was subtle accusation
In his voice. Tempers began to rise. Resentment set in.
Before long, a deep and bitter chasm divided 
the young men. They refused to speak. 

They finally Decided they could no longer work together 
and a dividing wall was built down 
the center of the store. For twenty years hostility
and bitterness grew, Spreading to their 
families and to the community. 

Then one day a man in an automobile licensed in 
another state stopped in front of the store. 
He walked in and asked the clerk, "How long 
have you been Here?" The clerk replied that
he'd been there all his life. The customer said, 
"I must share something with you. Twenty years ago 
I was 'riding the rails' and Came into this town in a boxcar.
I hadn't eaten for three days. I came into this store
from the back door and saw a twenty-dollar bill 
on the cash register. I put it in my pocket and 
walked out. All these years I haven't been able
to forget that. I know it wasn't much money,
but I had to come back and ask your Forgiveness."

The stranger was amazed to see tears well up in the eyes
of this middle-aged man. "Would you please go next door
and tell that same story to the man in The store?"
he said. Then the man was even more amazed to see 
two middle-aged men, who looked very much alike, 
embracing each other and weeping together 
In the front of the store. 

After twenty years, the brokenness was mended. 
The wall of resentment that divided them came down.

Lesson to Learn from The Story

It is so often the little things - like resentments - 
that finally divide people. And the solution,
of course, is to let them go. There is really nothing
Particularly profound about it. But for fulfilling 
and lasting relationships, letting them go is a must.
Refuse to carry around bitterness and 
you may Be surprised at how much energy you have left 
for building bonds with those you love 

Author Unknown

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Inspiring Story: The Nails in the Fence..

There once was a boy who had a temper. His father gave him 
a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, 
he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.


The first day the boy had driven 50 nails into the fence. Over 
the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger 
the number of nails hammered gradually dwindled down. 

He discovered it was easier to hold his temper 
than to drive nails into the fence.


Finally the day came when he didn't lose his temper. 
He told his father and his father suggested that the boy now 
pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his anger. 
The days passed and the boy told his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took the boy by the hand and led him to the fence. 
He said look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same, 

Lesson from The Story:

when you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like 
the ones on the fence. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. 
it won't matter how many times you say I am sorry, 
the wound is still there. 

A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Our Friends,Family and 
Love Once are very rare. they make you smile and encourage you 
to succeed. They lend an ear, and always want to open their hearts to us. 

Author: Unknown